Every year a little worse

6 years ago everything was great! We took care of the hosue equally, both cared for our child, both worked similar jobs, the same nunber of hours. We were intimate, we understood each other, we cared for one another.

Now it is so hard to care.

When I now work 3 times as much and pay your bills so you can refuse to make payments on your secret debt I uncovered and go out with your friends on weekends... when I cook every meal but you refuse to eat a bit because you'd rather have fast food... when I can't get you to look up from your phone, EVER, not even to acknowledge that your child or I are speaking to you... when I am the one who reminds you to GET UP in the morning, get through your routine, leave for work, etc... and when I can't even get you to spend time with me, much less pick up a broom or vacuum like you used to? It is getting harder to care.

Yeah I know, ADHD and depression. You saw a therapist 3 times and refuse to take meds as prescribed, and tried absolutely nothing they said for lifestyle changes. Instead you lay around hemorrhaging money and making your kid sad that you won't play, ans switching jobs every month because you "don't know how you feel" about the last one.

And you have the AUDACITY to say the problem is that I don't want to have sex? Even when we've tried you make me get on top, won't try anything else, and complain I'm not doing it right! Forget anything reciprocal. Yeah that and being your housemaid REALLY makes me feel sexy! Even trying a date to reconnect wirh that lost part ends in you staring at the phone and passing me the bill, then falling asleep during the movie and waking halfway through to ask for a bj.

I don't knoe what happened. I don't know where the man I married went, but you aren't him.

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anonymous Relationships August 30, 2025 at 2:13 pm 0 0