DEVELOPING A HABIT I DETESTED GROWING UP
After so many toxic relationships, I finally have someone who truly loves me, is patient with me and does everything right, but I can't seem to let go of the tiniest things they do wrong (I grew up with a narcissictic mother and an avoidant father, both carrying their own generational trauma which they project onto me) and at times I tend to overreact. I am afraid that this habit of mine is going to cost me something wonderful. I try not to 'overthink', yet I end up criticising my partner like my mother did to me which fucked me up considerably.My partner tries to help, but I don't think they really can and its upto me to rectify myself.
I just want to know that I am not alone struggling with habits I hated growing up but also subconsciously picked up along the way.
anonymous Relationships April 17, 2024 at 12:48 pm 0 0
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2 Rant Comments
anonymous 2 weeks ago
I wish you luck and I hope that you can overcome this issue for both yourself and your partner.
Tomas 2 weeks ago