Crush’s best friend

I(17F) have two close friends A and B (both17M). I have had an unrelenting crush on A for three years. He is a kind, intelligent person who makes me feel heard and makes me laugh. Hes always there for me. I know he doesnt like me. Ive never made my feelings clear to him. He tends to avoid romance and i wish to respect that. B is A’s best friend. B just went through a bad breakup and ive been worried for him. His spirit is crushed and he seems pretty insecure after it. B just texted me asking how to confess to A as apparently he has had a crush on him for about a year. This is so difficult because i care about B and genuinely wish him success but i fall asleep thinking about A. Im in love with A. So how do i explain to B that i cant be his go to person for this particular issue without sounding possessive about someone i have no claim over

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J Crushes May 06, 2026 at 1:30 pm 0 0