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So I'm communicating with this girl she approached me problem is im 35 shes 43. Now if i was 43 or 50 would be fine if she were 35 but i want to have children shes too old. She seems a nice girl and I'm trying to be open to her because I really appreciate the effort she has put in but it frhstrates me why can't a younger girl put half that effort to me? Honestly it breaks my heart, shes a nice girl i want to please her but I want children shes asking me to give up my dreams of children and also a normal relationship for her fantasy of a younger sexy guy. I mean yes I'm sexy but you are 43, 20 years ago you couldn't find a 35 year old guy like me? Thats my issue i feel its actually traumatic this situation its like i feel its making me suicidal like women don't respect men and I feel dehumanised, devalued and worthless like I need to accept someone who is older when I want children. I'm not in a good place right now. I feel I go to the gym often, watch what i eat for what? Just so i can have a girl 8 years older then me when younger girls treat me like a joke because they either want no guy or only rich guys or whatever they want. I don't have any desire for suicide but I feel completely like I'm not respected. I just feel I can't get a normal life from my life. I'm just a sex object and I am sub human. Girls dont talk to me except to patronise me. I'm nothing I get given all the jobs nobody wants with work I'm underpaid. I'm always at the bottom. What life is this?

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anonymous Relationships April 06, 2025 at 2:08 am 0 1