Boyfriend and best friend

My boyfriend and his best friend are so close it hurts me. I feel like they’re playing in my face and it’s making me crazy.
First meeting her: it was in a group with her at the time boyfriend and another one of my boyfriend’s friends. Everything was good.
Second time: horrible. It was just the 3 of us and they said 4 sentences to me. He refused to touch me like he normally would. They talked about games they play, each others families and friends, inside jokes, and future plans they had together I knew nothing about. Even bought matching socks for said plans.
Since then: her boyfriend broke up with her for real after her needing to have MY boyfriend stay over because she was gonna end things and needed support. I knew about this but it was only about 2 weeks into the relationship so it wasn’t my place to be angry. Now it’s been months and they just broke up about a week ago. I find out that on that night he kissed her on her forehead because we were hanging out and he kissed mine. He then said “I think forehead kisses are the most romantic.. well not romantic because I’ve kissed (her) forehead lots of times but definitely the most meaningful.” The kiss one time would be fine maybe but lots of times? And after a comment like that?
He changed our valentine plans less than 24 hours before to go meet up with her after we had our day planned for a whole month. I told him no I’m not doing that but he can go. He said no we’ll do the original plan. Problem solved? No. Every store we went in he found a reason to bring her up. Even bought things for her. Nothing for me.
He told me the day before our valentines that the reason he calls me nicknames (babe, hon..) is because he used to with her.
He told me while I was doing laundry how I shouldn’t wear underwear and that she doesn’t wear underwear.
I can’t even get a coffee or snack from him but he just bought her an $80 keycap set because the one she had was from her ex and she can’t look at it. Also went grocery shopping for her. I asked for Tylenol and was given 3 doses in a ziploc from his house.
They have plans to move in together, he’s quitting school to do that sooner.
He answered her phone call during sex and stayed on it for 30+ minutes because she was sad about her ex.
He just told me 4 days ago how he can’t stay the night here anymore until he catches up on sleep for himself. However they just went on an overnight getaway 4 hours away together because apparently it’s fine with her but not me?
One of the worst comments was him calling us his 2 girls. That one still makes me sick and I think about it every day.
He claims nothing has ever happened between them but I feel like the other woman in my own relationship.
There’s sooo much more but I’ve put in so much already.

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anonymous Dating March 30, 2026 at 2:31 am 1 0