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Am I the asshole?

Am I the asshole?

So basically me and my ex were dating for 3 years. From 13 to 17. I broke up with him and am now with my boyfriend. Today me and my bf were talking about some kinks and stuff and I told him to bring a blindfold, handcuffs, and some whipped cream when he comes to see me next time. He said “you sayin that makes me think you’ve done that before” i said “the handcuff part slightly” because i wanted to be honest with him. He got mad and said he needed a minute cuz he was sickened that I had done that before. My opinion is like I was with my ex for 3 years, how is it a shocker that it wasn’t always vanilla sex? My bf knew I wasn’t a virgin, so why is using handcuffs such a hard thing to fathom?
anonymous Relationships February 17, 2026 at 6:06 am 0
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You are probably an ass hole but nothing to do with what he is saying. I think obviously no man wants to know about your past sex but having said that he over reacted. But its definitely not attractive guys are definitely turned off by it. Women underestimate how much guys really are turned off by it. But i mean he should get over it. In future i would suggest just not answering if he asks about previous relationships if he presses you confront him say you obviously dont want to know now you need to stop pressing me about this and decide if you want to accept me or not. Because I cant undo past relationships. But yeah you probably are a horrible person because you are a woman but not because you said that like thats nothing.
anonymous 1 hour ago
Last weekend my ex was being a total cunt so I sexually degraded her then beat her until she was in the fetal position, bitches never learn
Castro 26 minutes ago
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