Am I in the wrong?

Why cant women accept when they are wrong? My wife is bitching at me saying that I never helped her in the beginning when our baby was born. So I go on to tell her that I used to wake up to change the baby so she wouldnt have to. She then said that she was always lacking sleep. I told her I didnt understand how if she never really woke up. She said that she would wake up to breast feed. I told her that she would wake up and have the baby latch then go back to sleep. I told her that on multiple nights she wouldnt wake up and i would bottle feed the baby. Her response was that she would clean the house too. I told her that I would be the one cleaning the house and cooking food for the family and still going to work the next day. She then said she didnt understand how she felt so tired. I told her I didnt understand either since she had three months off of work and I still managed to care for the house and my step daughters, help with the baby, and still go to work without ever bitching.

Her response was I dont want to talk about this anymore. I told her that she is the one that brought it up. I told her that no one was taking what she did for granted and I was not looking for any recognition. I told her that I simply needed her to reevaluate her comment saying that I didnt help her.

She just got upset and left.

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Dad Relationships January 29, 2025 at 9:19 pm 0 0