my “best friend”

every single time me and my friend disgaree on something, wether it be things like a show, music, or even things we/he does, we always end up in a fight. earlier today he was showing me how he had been texting someone who was being rude to him and talking about him, and sure yeah it was funny because they were arguing a bit. then the other person was saying how he can get him on harassment because he has been talking to the police because of the situation. i simply said they could get him on harassment if they were really talking to the police, and he started saying they cant, thats not what harrassment is, hes not threatening him so its fine. i said you dont have to threaten them for it to be harrassment, and he said i must not know what harrassment is. he stormed off and i shut the door and locked it, because i wasnt about ti deal with him being mad at me AGAIN over a disagreement. he tries to open the door then pounds on the door loudly, i open it and all he asks is have you seen my work uniform and i said no. after a while i open the door again and start telling him that JUST BECAUSE we had a disagreement doesnt mean we have to stop being friends. and that everytime i dont agree with him, he gets mad. and if hes already irritated then he tries to take it out on other people, i was telling him dont take it out on me. he then says well youre about to make me. at that point i close the door and lock it again. now im sitting here typing all of this. i have no one to talk to about it because my husband, who is his brother, is away on business. and i currently live with his family. i could try to talk to his mom about it, because his mom admits hes a narcissist or at least has a few traits. but as the months have gone on ive just realized i dont want him as a friend. he has no regard to other peopls feelings AT ALL, and everytime we disagree he takes it as a personal attack. its to the point i just wanna move out and not speak to him. but i cant do that currently at all. i am moving in about 6 months, with my husband, so i may as well just wait until then to tell said friend about himself and everything. its getting really hard not to say it to his face though. this is the exact stuff i went through with my sister, thats part of the reason i moved away from her. me and said friend have been friends since we were little kids, and i hate to see that go, but i dont like the type of person he is anymore.

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anongirl Friends November 17, 2025 at 4:38 pm 0 0