Sounds like you're open to do anything. Death is inevitable, why not go all out and try wild new things that you might enjoy, even if your brain tells you you'll hate it? I mean you're here now and you haven't been having fun. If you're on your way out, I can't see the harm in doing something you've always dreamed of doing besides death that might light the spark in your life. I personally felt like you but I tried something I thought I would hate because of fear, insecurities, and doubt. Yet after actually DOING it, I realized it was the best thing I ever did in my life and found new excitement in life. Maybe it's time to try new things regardless of how much you doubt a positive outcome.

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anonymous 2 weeks ago

who with and no im not open to anything where did you get that idea from? this is why i dont bother cause no one fucking gets what it feels like to be on the other end of the scale.

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no one 2 weeks ago

What I did, I did alone but met others along the way. My whole life has been on the "the other end of the scale". Yet just recently by trying something new, something I thought and felt to my core I would hate, I actually ended up liking it and started being excited for my life again. Look all im saying is it might be time for you to do risky fun things. That might be hopping on live somewhere and talking about your passions, going back college for something and bouncing around in classes until something peaks your interest, moving to a different state or country etc. The world is truly open if you put your mind to the possibilities.

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anonymous 2 weeks ago

i have already tried many options they all failed? its just utter shit these days. i find it harder to both learn a new skill and find friends cause everyone my age has already done it all. that or they have their social group they dont need me.

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no one 2 weeks ago

You need to relate the skills or things you try to do to things you like doing. As for friends, I would say you need to work on yourself first. Even though life may have been shit, we still have to find a way to enjoy it and bring that energy to our interactions. I'm sure if you had a choice to hang out with someone who is moping around and hating life, or someone who is full jokes and smiles you would pick the person with smiles 9 times out of 10. Now I'm not saying fake it, but look inside yourself and see what did or do you like doing on your free time and explore things around it. Once you work on that, your health, and you're mental space you're bound to get new friends, and you'll have better out look on life. It's not going to be a fix all. You'll still have bad days, days where you'll question what you're doing, and setbacks. But the journey should be more important than the destination, or you'll never reach it.

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anonymous 2 weeks ago

id just kill myself. when are you going to accept it isnt always sunshine and rainbows for everyone? this is ratning site is it not? why cant people just accept how others feel without making us feel worse for feeling shit about our situations? ignorant cunts thats all people turn out to be.

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no ond 2 weeks ago

Would 100% rather hang out with the depressed person than some jokester who can't take anything seriously or someone or keeps going around with one of those fake smiles and pretends everything us okay while ignoring pressing issues. Toxic positivity people are gross. Negative emotions are just as valid as positive ones and neither can exist without the other.

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anonymous 2 weeks ago

While it is certainly important to work on yourself and focus on your own happiness, it is not fair to suggest that people should only focus on themselves before seeking out friendships. Friends can provide support, companionship, and a sense of belonging that can greatly improve mental health and overall well-being.

Additionally, it is not accurate to assume that someone who is struggling with their mental health is automatically "moping around and hating life." People can still be kind, caring, and enjoyable to be around even if they are dealing with their own challenges.

Furthermore, it is not helpful to compare people's worth based on whether they are always full of jokes and smiles. Everyone has their own unique personalities and ways of expressing themselves, and it is important to accept and appreciate people for who they are.

Ultimately, it is important to focus on both self-improvement and building meaningful relationships with others. By finding a balance between personal growth and social connections, individuals can lead more fulfilling and enriching lives.

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anonymous 2 weeks ago

i dint care if i am dead or not anymore but theres too much faux positivity like saying we have to put a mask on all the time.

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no one 2 weeks ago