sick of my mom barging in on me in the bathroom

i'm fairly certain that it's not normal for your mother to barge in on you while you're using the bathroom. i think this has happened at least ~5 or so times this year alone. i'm not sure why she feels perfectly entitled to just walk in while i'm using the bathroom, but it pisses me off. i don't see the point. i don't barge on her when she's in the bathroom and i'm 10000% sure she wouldn't barge on literally anybody else, so why the hell do i have to deal with this?? it's just creepy and weird and i hate it. it's one of the main reasons i want to move out soon because i'm sick of her just walking into the bathroom. i legit have to make sure i lock it whenever she's in the house so she can't just run inside.

i'm also sick of her barging into my room when the door is closed. multiple times i've been trying to change out my clothes and had her just try to walk into my room without knocking or saying anything. like.. what the fuck. who does that???? if someone's door is closed then they obviously closed it for a reason. if i try to lock my bedroom door then she literally gets a fucking screwdriver from the kitchen and takes off the door knob, then she starts yelling at me about why i closed the door and if something happened..

LITERALLY NOTHING HAPPENED. I JUST WANT TO CHANGE MY CLOTHES IN PEACE WITHOUT YOU BARGING IN ON ME. my god. i hate it so much. if i lock the bathroom door she's the same exact way, she'll start interrogating me as if i'm a criminal for having the audacity of locking the bathroom door so i can have some god damn privacy.

idk i'm just sick of it. i love my mom but honestly, this kinda behavior is really making me want to move away as soon as possible. i legit cannot even imagine what it'd be like to live somewhere without someone barging in on you 24/7 when you're changing or in the bathroom. she also interrogates me about locking the doors for some god damn reason. i'm nearly an adult, why tf are you treating me like i'm 5 years old. smh

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anonymous Other February 27, 2023 at 10:27 pm 0 0