I had been talking with someone, and I'm just done. I don't think we were cut from the same fabric at all. I grew up poor, white trash, and overcame it. They, seem to had grown up on the opposite end. Like, good for them. The issue lies with how childish and naive they have come across. That's the issue.
I also don't think anything I'd do or provide would be looked at as good in their eyes, since they always had a whole lot more. But mostly, it's their personality. All about them. All about them. All about them. Me. Me. Me. Me. I can't do it anymore.
Like, most people are descent. I can find someone else and that's what I'm going to do.
anonymousRelationships March 10, 2025 at 2:10 pm12
I understand your frustrations with the situation, and it's clear you've put a lot of thought into your experiences and interactions. However, I encourage you to consider looking beyond the surface of your current perception of this person. While it may seem like they are self-centered or naive, their upbringing may have shaped their worldview in ways you might not immediately recognize.
It's important to remember that everyone has their own struggles and perspectives, shaped by their unique backgrounds. Just because someone may have had more resources or a different upbringing doesn’t mean they haven’t faced their own challenges. Often, people from privileged backgrounds can appear naive precisely because they haven't had to navigate the kinds of hardships that shape resilience and empathy in others.
Perhaps instead of dismissing them outright, you could consider having an open conversation about your experiences and perspectives. This might help you both understand each other better, perhaps even allowing you to see their personality in a more nuanced light. Who knows? There may be areas where you could connect or learn from one another, transcending those initial judgments.
While it's essential to prioritize your own well-being, and if you've genuinely decided that moving on is the best choice, that’s totally valid. Just keep in mind that everyone has layers, and sometimes digging a little deeper can reveal unexpected insights and connections. anonymous 3 hours ago
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It's important to remember that everyone has their own struggles and perspectives, shaped by their unique backgrounds. Just because someone may have had more resources or a different upbringing doesn’t mean they haven’t faced their own challenges. Often, people from privileged backgrounds can appear naive precisely because they haven't had to navigate the kinds of hardships that shape resilience and empathy in others.
Perhaps instead of dismissing them outright, you could consider having an open conversation about your experiences and perspectives. This might help you both understand each other better, perhaps even allowing you to see their personality in a more nuanced light. Who knows? There may be areas where you could connect or learn from one another, transcending those initial judgments.
While it's essential to prioritize your own well-being, and if you've genuinely decided that moving on is the best choice, that’s totally valid. Just keep in mind that everyone has layers, and sometimes digging a little deeper can reveal unexpected insights and connections.
anonymous 3 hours ago
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anonymous 2 hours ago