I was humiliated in front of my gf

I was humiliated in front of my gf.....I don't know what to do I feel like doing something crazy no

I use this site to rant since no one knows me and I rant about this a few days ago. This is what I wrote.......

I have been dating this girl for about 6 months. You see she is 17 and im 20 and I would be 21 in 1 month. She turns 18 at the end of this year. I met her at My church. She's actually my first gf. I don't really have much contact with other girls. For example she still in high school however I'm not in college I only went to college one semester. I have a good job for now I'm more into going out with my church friends not into party's or clubs. I'm not clueless about them I used to have friends that had party crews. So since I do this I expect my girl to be the same. My gf seems mature for her age. She's smart and modest because despite having a body she doesn't show off on public or social media. She doesn't wear much make up and most of the time she wears jeans and blouses. Since she has big boobs it she does show some cleavage. But she is also a little naive.

I say naive because 4 months ago her parents move to a pretty tough neighborhood. My gf is the girly kind she's not used to that kind of environment. There this 19 year old guy was trying to talk to her. He talk about her boobs, ass, and lips. Wouldn't blame him my girl does have a nice body. She has big boobs, big butt, big lips, tighs, she's skinny but has an hour glass shape figure. She's a brunette with really pale skin. My gf parents are from Costa Rica and she tells me girls are like that there. My parents are from Mexico but I look like a dark middle eastern. I'm kind of average looking. I used to have insecurities about how I look for example I'm only 5'7 while my gf is 5'6. Well going back to the dude Who bothers her. He gave her rude compliments. She told me about it. That's one thing I like about her. She told me all the guys that were after her. This girl like me since she was 15. Her liking me boost my self esteem. I wasn't a complete looser in high school but I was most of the time alone. She dated 2 guys shortly but she's been alone as well. I feared before that she would go more for the attractive guys and leave me.

She has celebrity crushes and they look tall, fair skin tone, some with green eyes. So when this guy was bothering her I wasn't that jealous but I did told her to stop talking to the guy. That's the thing about my girl she's just so friendly. She told to not worry about it because the guy was black and shes not into black guys. It's not much of a racial issue but more of a cultural thing. Most black guys that we know are kind of loud and obnoxious and this guy that bother her fit that description. And well the dude isn't that facially attractive to begin with, He's also super dark like the color black itself. But he is tall and very built I tell you that.

Well a week pass and we were at the movies with some friends. There she was texting with that same guy. She told me that he has changed his attitude and now their friends. The next day i went to her school, and i saw the guy. I recognized him and from what i know he isn't really friendly to our kind (Latinos). I was surprise he got along with my girlfriend. Anyways It seem as if he was trying to grab her but my girl didn't let herself. I was with my brother and we told him to stop. When he heard us he apogize and try to keep his cool with me but he didn't stop flirting with my girl after that.

But one day in the park we were playing B-ball, he made a bet that who ever wins would do something. He won and hes bet was to kiss my girl. My girlfriend didn't want that. And i kind of got into a fight with him but I did compromise because he's friends were there. I told him that he can kiss my girl in the cheek. So he kiss her but then he pin her down the table and move his lips towards her boobs. I saw my girl not complaining Imstead she close her eyes stick her chest out tilt her head back pursed her lips and did a slight smile. He did it only for one minute leaving hickeys on her cleavage. After he was done he left and i told my girl why was she so relaxed. She seem mad and made a remark that I should have done something about it and maybe she should go with the black guy since he actually had balls. This dude humiliated me in front of my gf.

That didn't end there I was at a friends party last week and I usually don't go to party's my gf was also there. She started dancing with her girlfriends alone next thing u know she got into the music and began twerking all of sudden the black guy got behind her and started grinding on her. I think she thought it was me because bent more down and put her hands on the wall until she turn around then she stormed out look at me and then walked away.


This guy is so cocky my gf was so mad at me because I did not stood up for her. So she power walk 2 blocks away. A group of guys were there and wanted to rape her but the black guy was also there with his truck. He defended her and she got in the truck with him but before he took her to her house he made her give him a BJ and let him cum on her boobs. She was kind of forced into it then my gf call me right after that happen and she told me sorry and if I'm going to do something about it. She suggested that maybe she should give him a chance because he defended her.

This guy assumes he can have my girl. Not true what so ever my gf doesn't even talk to him anymore. She told me that she admires his courage and is funny but that's he isn't that attractive, he's rude and he isn't funny like me. He's also a looser and has no long term goals. However she did warn me that if she did decided to cheat on me she would first break up with me and she would do it because Im to cowardly.


.............well that was before now today I went to go see him because I made up my mind to fight him. I'm no fighter and I told him to back away from my girl. Before we fought he showed me a thread of text messages from her. There was 7 messages from him and only 2 messages from my girl telling him to leave her alone. But what hurt my man pride was when she send him a picture of her in bras and panties. She said this........

"I already told u I don't want you, I love my boyfriend. This picture is for you to settled down and if you need to masturbate go for it. But I won't cheat on my boyfriend and if you don't stop I'm putting a restraining order on you. Besides if it makes you feel better yo penis don't fit on this pussy ****."

He replied that I'm not good enough for her and that I have a small penis. First of all I'm not so big but my gf never seen mines. He told her if he beats me up would she consider going out with him since he can defend her and I can't.

My girl replied yea!!! At that time my gf arrived at the scene and she explain to me it was her friend that wrote that not her.

I got into a big fight with the the guy but I'm not fighter I got beat up. When I was on the floor I saw him smile at my girl and told her to get in the car and she did. I been trying to call her but it goes to voicemail. This too much my friend just shown me a snapchat of that black guy and there is a girl in the bed you can only see her back and she's only wearing panties. It's kind of dark the room you see the flash light and the girl looks like she has white skin and brown hair like my gf. I can't tell this to no one because it's so embarrassing only to strangers than don't know me.

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anonymous Dating May 22, 2018 at 5:17 pm 6 0