Hey, it is always scary the first time, even when you are drunk a bit, and usually, for girls, it is crap, the reality almost never lives up to the 'dream' but dont let that put you off, seriously, it gets better as you get more confident, and when you are with the right person, and if you love the guy and he loves you, and want him to stay with you, he will want make love to you at some point, this is a big thing for guys, which I understand, I am not saying you should have sex just to keep him, I am saying that for a full relationship, he will expect to be intimate with you at some point and eventually he will get tired of waiting, which I know sounds bad, but how long do you expect him to wait?

Saying all that, if you are not ready, you are not ready, and it is up to you to decide this and should not be pressured into anything, but at the same time, it is up to him to decide how long he will wait for you.

Good luck and I hope it works out.

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Annie 2 weeks ago