Hypocritical mom

My mom is so hypocritical and it's driving me insane.
We share a lot of our clothes and I often don't find stuff I was planning on wearing cause she took it that day. And that's fine I just wear smth else.
But when I do it all hell breaks loose. I don't even know why it bothers her cause I always leave after her, so she's already dressed for the day anyway.
We also try on a bunch of stuff before we settle on an outfit. My clothes are always all over the place cause she forgets to put them back. And again, that's fine I just put them back in myself.
When I try her stuff and forget to put back one singular shirt? Ohoho I'm spoiled and selfish and don't appreciate her or what she does and have no respect for her clothes.
In my entire closet there is only one thing that I have said is off limits as I'm not sharing that with anyone. She got pissed at me cause she wanted to wear it to a concert and I said no. That was a couple months ago and she's still mad, even tho I clearly told her a year ago about this limit.
And so now when I borrow something that's hers she goes on a rant how I take all of her stuff (all of it being one shirt once every 1-2 weeks since I don't go out often), but when she wants to borrow something I get mad and say no.
I've never gotten mad, she can always borrow my stuff and has borrowed a lot, she even straight up took some of my stuff and put it in her closet. It's just that one item I said no about and she resents me for it.
Cherry on top tho, she has multiple items that she told me not to touch. So it's fine for her but not for me. K.
And if anyone is thinking "ohh but she bought you that stuff so she can take it if she wants" no fuck off ive been buying my own shit for years. She pays for my share of the bills since I don't have a full time job yet, but for everything else, clothes, food, tuition, literally anything I need, I've been paying for on my own.
I even bought some of the stuff in her closet and yet here we are.

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anonymous Home April 24, 2024 at 7:46 pm 0 0