Try making a convo like asking his favorite things until the convoy is just floowing!

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anonymous 18 hours ago

Good advice coming in from a trusty troll:

So first: We can definitely say, with assuring, this guy is into you. Just to get that out of the way because I bet that's not new info.

Second: I'm assuming you are at least kinda into this guy as well

Finally: When it comes to actually starting a relationship, it's important to be confident. If he's into you, he'll want to take the relationship further as well, but if you take it further he might be more into it. Try acting cool, but not rude around him, and take it slow. Relationships take time, and if you want something that might last longer you want to take it very slow. Get to know him, find out things about him like favorite food, favorite candy, maybe even get him those as a gift, but remember: slow. it's hard to get the right pace for a relationship so you really want to try hard to nail that. You don't want to start flirting too much early on, be more chill about it. As time goes on, warm him up, get him to a point where feels comfortable just being around you, and you can do that by literally just being open. Don't think too hard about things like compliments, just give them, tell him his shoes look nice or whatever, but be honest. The more open you are with him, the more open we will be willing to be with you. At that point, it would be safe to start trying to make advances. If you can tell he feels comfortable around you (He talks easily, jokes often, sits relaxed, that kind of thing) than if you want you can try subtle flirting. Saying things like "You look handsome" or just generally saying nice things that allude to you being into him are great at this stage. If he starts being flirtatious back, complimenting you, or if he's that kind of guy, being playful or teasing (Which I won't lie, is probably what I would do) than you can try going further. Only go as far as you are comfortable with, and always make sure he's comfortable with what your doing to. if you want a functional relationship with this guy, you want to make sure he is comfortable too, because you don't want to be with someone who makes you uncomfortable.

And that point, you can go as far as you are willing and he is willing. Just know it's important that you keep it slow, start of just as friends, because friendship is almost guaranteed to lead to romantic feelings if that's what you want, if it's not what you want, at least now you have a good friend.

Also, one more thing, be very open with your limits, tell him exactly what you are and aren't comfortable with, because if he is worth knowing at all, he will respect your limits. If he doesn't get as far away as possible from that man.

Fourth: If you don't like any of my advice or I misread the context, disregard all my advice totally.

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Ruination 12 hours ago