how lenient should I be?
my partner (that were supposedly on a break) has ADHD and forgets things easily and that's all fine but one of the things he forgets to do is message me
we used to talk heaps but I slowly started to realize it was always me initiating things, whether it was hanging out or just chatting about our days
and the fact that he feels he needs to always check notifications so he's often on his phone
id always be the one who put it into motion
and this was probably not the right way to go about it but slowly I stopped messaging him and eventually, I just wouldn't hear from him
and now I don't even feel like we're not even friends at this point like I wasn't as important as I hoped I might be in the first place
so my question is this just the way it is with ADHD sometimes or is it really like they say that "if he wanted to he would" ?
PeachesRelationships July 04, 2022 at 9:14 am30