It's a status thing.
Most asian americans are status-obsessed.
They want to be the best at everything. Hence the "tiger mom" stereotype and such.
This includes marriage. It's inherently wrong but being white is seen as "higher status" even by other ethnicities (this happens a lot with Latina women as well).

Having a white guy marry into an asian family is something seen as higher status, and a sign to the girl and her family that "they made it in America".

That's why I don't believe the "traditional" inlaws stereotypes we see in movies and TV where the inlaws are upset because their daughter did not marry an Asian guy. It's total BS. Asian families are super stoked at having a white guy in the family and they can't wait to share pictures of this to their family and friends in the mainland.

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Ling 1 week ago

Well it's because they are obviously the best. But that doesn't mean you can't get an Asian girl you are probably less attractive then other Asian guys maybe too fat or too poor. If you were rich you can get Asian girls. If you go to the Philippines you probably could get one without being rich

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anonymous 1 week ago

Honestly, I do not care why, that is up to them...all love to me...

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John 1 week ago

My female boss was like this!!!!! She was Vietnamese and she ONLY dated white men. She’s in her late 40s and never spoke about her previous marriage but she would always tell me about her dating life!! She would always get jealous of me because I only date white men (I’m a white girl) She was as mean as you could possibly be, always yelling at me over stupid stuff and trying to make herself look better and more interesting. Idk why she felt like she could compete against a college girl but she chose to do that to herself by avoiding Asian and black men’s interest in her. Honestly just call her out on it, the only time that woman ever backed down to me is if I defended myself. (That job helped me build a lot of inner confidence from always having to self validate and defend myself) I’m sure you’re a lovely man, so I would just forget about her and try to find someone without an inferiority complex. You deserve someone to be as in love with you as you are with them <3

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Wishing you the best 1 week ago

White men are basically the most desirable is it rocket science? Most handsome, clever, sophisticated, everything they are better at. Big cocks too often. So I mean this woke stuff is bizarre it's like what alternative universe are you from. "Call her out" so that's like saying to a guy who sees a hot girl you are so disgusting, no it's just normal. I mean there is a scale of attraction and part is race, part is appearance, money and power for men. It's not one thing but obviously if you got race it's a big deal. Because obviously all guys want white women, and white men

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anonymous 1 week ago

Only a handful of White Men look good. About 50% of them have big dicks. Most are just very plain looking and a small amount of them are fugly. I’ve seen gorgeous Black and Asian women waste their DNA on average looking White men just so they could parade him around TikTok and Instagram like they’re special because some White dude and not even the cream of the crop types, married and had children with them. And the way they splatter their biracial kids on social media to have strangers fetishize them is sick. Nothing wrong if you were born biracial, but being fetishized for being biracial is abhorrent. Example of a good looking White Man: Zac Efron before plastic surgery. Example of a plain looking White Man: Charlie Kirk. See what I mean.

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Cornholio 1 week ago

Charlie kirk actually has nicer features. Black people have monkey like features. Asian people are abit better but some also don't have great features. So he's still above on the spectrum hate to break it. He doesn't have to be zac effron. Is Charlie got liposuction he might look like zac if he also got his hair done. Really a man doing himself up is little to do with his usefulness. So if it's appearance pretty sure white guys always win but on just about any measure usually they do. Unless you are a rich Asian and lots of rich white so I mean your point of view is actually racist to think in terms of race like its this race war for Asian women out of jealousy. Those women are happy just that the white bloke smiles at them. But really a man's value is a more holistic thing just as a woman is except for a woman her appearance matters more. Nonetheless if a woman is beautiful but a complete bitch she is actual limited value because how can you really marry her ? It's just not practical. If you want Asian girls well it's possible that particular girl is just very picky and rarely goes for any guy full stop. I suggest if you want a girl don't focus on just one because women are like that they will disappoint all men regardless of race

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anonymous 1 week ago