Am I An A-whole? (Broken Trust)

I'm the middle child of three. I have a younger brother and an older sister. My sister always got into trouble when we were younger. She is currently 20 but used to get in trouble by stealing cars and doing drugs. She has crashed quite a few. She doesn't really steal cars anymore, but she is not allowed a license until she pays off a really big amount of fines. I am 18, I have my own car, and I have a license that is restricted to the hours of 5am to 11:59pm, meaning I am not allowed to drive past midnight. Tonight, around 10:30pm, my sister told me that her boy toy was arrested and under house arrest and she wanted to go see him. She asked if she could use my car to go see him. I told her I'd drive her over if she had a way back home. She said she didn't have a way back and if she could just use my car she would pay me $40 for gas and stuff. She asked me to trust her but I kept thinking how can I with her past? Will she actually be safe in my car? Will she not do drugs in my car? That one was very important because I'm still in Highschool and we have random drug searches with the drug dogs and if they smell ANYTHING coming from my car I could be in deep shit. I don't do drugs, they aren't for me, I don't care if my friends or my sister does drugs as long as I can't get in trouble for it. Anyway I allowed her to take it after she swore on her son's life she would be back by 11:30. I stayed up to make sure she was back and around 11:25 she texts asking if she could stay out until midnight. I explained I had a restricted licence and couldn't drive past midnight and how she didn't have a licence, so if she ended up getting pulled over we would both be fucked. I don't have the money to pay an impound fee and she would be in deep shit with her fines and shit. We said ok and that she would be on her way, so I waited some more. Around 11:45 I asked her where she was because she needed to be home. She said she was on the way, she was five minutes (the exact amount of time from our house to her boy toy's house), I explained again that I had a restricted licence and that she needed to be home. Around 11:50 I asked her once again, where are you, I got 'your car over heated, I'm waiting for it to cool down'. I figured this was a lie because the only time it over heated was when the fan became unplugged. I told her I was on my way and started to get ready and told my mom what was going on so she could take me to get my car. As my mom and I were getting ready to go my sister texted that she lied and she was (again) on her way. I told her that she was never borrowing my car if she can't respect the rules that come with it... I feel as though she sees me as an asswhole... I feel like an asswhole but I also don't need extra stress this year.

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anonymous Other January 15, 2025 at 1:56 am 0 0