"Family"

To this day I'm still pissed off. It all started when me, my mom, and sister decided to go out and do some trampoline inside a mall and hangout. I invited them—told them, I wanna do some tramps since we haven't done that for years. Before we go out, my mom and my sister are doing something in my mom's computer (my mom trades) and my sister is helping my mom with her dashboard.

While they're busy, I went out of the apartment and did some ride-hail booking on my phone—at this point, I'm having a hard time looking for drivers in the area but I kept on trying and trying until someone called me. It's the driver. I answered the call and the driver said "Ma'am, can you wait for 21 mins? I'm still at Ortigas Ext." (where the driver is at) Since, my mom and sister are still doing something inside, I said, "Okay, we can wait". And he hunged up. I stepped inside and saw mom and sis are arguing about smth (mom was giving instructions to her and sister can't seem to understand and she's pissed off. my mom was pissed off. they're both pissed off) And I'm busy looking for adapter inside the apartment, so I can charge—besides the driver was still miles away (btw they're still arguing).

While they're still arguing, I heard a rang from my sister's phone—and oh, IT'S THE DRIVER! It would turned out, while my mom and my sister are arguing inside—my sister did some ride-hail booking on her phone without telling me!!!! The moment she said the driver is at the pick-up point—I'm done. And then they began to stopped what their doing and we rush to grab our things to head outside. I'm about to tell the driver that I'm cancelling the ride and I'm gonna apologized. But what she said next, pissed me off even more. She said in a pissed tone "Just cancel the ride. Don't tell the driver you're cancelling, they're gonna get mad!" And we rush to head outside because the driver my sister booked is there.

For the whole ride, sister's pissed off at mom, mom's pissed off at sis and I'm pissed off to the both of them. I decided to delete my account in the ride-hailing app, out of guilt and embarrassment. Is accountability still in the room with us? So we did the tramps (I'm still pissed off). After the tramps, we decided to eat (I can't forget about what happened but I'm feeling good.)

Started to be pissed off again when I opened my messaging app and saw the driver texted me the same day we're heading out. And of course, I apologized and the driver said "Ok".

But this doesn't end here. Weeks went by, and my sister went to church to serve at the afternoon service time than me. (She went for 2 and I went for 4). Before she heads out, she asked me what time I'm gonna go to church—I'm having thoughts because if I went for 2pm, I'll be at home before 7pm but if I went for 4pm, maybe I'll be home by 8-9pm because we're having church groups after service. And that's when I reminded her, that we're having church group after service and she said "Yes, okay. I'm gonna serve for 2pm and then I'm gonna attend the 4pm service, and we're gonna meet at the church." Then we're good. She still reminded me for the 4pm service and then she heads out.

I prepared and then went out to go to church at 4. After the service, I looked for her and didn't see her. Guess what, we didn't have church group because I also couldn't find our leader and I just went home.

When I went home, I messaged my sister where she was that day because I didn't saw her at the church and didn't get a response back. I messaged my mom, I asked her "Did she went to church?" Mom said "Yes, but we invited her to joined with us and go somewhere after service." Without telling me. Can't she atleast tell me that she's not going for 4, so I don't have to look for her, and just look for our leader and talk to her in private? (I don't have data, that's why I can't messaged her). Pissed off, to the point, I don't want to join their agendas or hangouts anymore.

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Rein Relationships February 09, 2026 at 11:56 am 0 0