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Stupid ignorant friends

Stupid ignorant friends

background info-
bad friends- L & KW
mentally unstable friend- K
good friend- T
So my good friend K isn't doing so well recently and gave my friend group a fright yesterday. She texted a few of us around midnight and asked us if we were awake. It was a school night, so of course we weren't. When people started to answer her, she wasn't responding. She didn't show up to school. K has been depressed before but doesn't talk much about it so we never really know what she's going through and if she's still depressed. I was so worried about her because I've been through that kind of stuff and it is literal hell. The easiest thing to do is think about death/killing yourself, and I was sick to my stomach. I had thought she had killed herself. Eventually she responded to our texts and said "everything is fine now." fast foward to the end of the school day, I thought it would be a good idea to put together a gift basket for K. I texted my friend L and T and asked if they thought it would be a good idea and we could all do it together. However, I didn't text my whole friend group because I wasn't sure if it was going to actually happen, so I was just looking for their approval for the moment. T replied with "Yeah, that would be nice." and L responded with, "me and kw were gonna do something like that" and I was just like oh, ok, when she kept going with, "but we can literally walk to her house and you can't so idk how you get it to her" I live about 10 minutes away from them, on the other side of our town, but i still could've gotten a ride. This was either her way of "politely" excluding me, or just pointing out that i dont live in a wealthy part of town unlike them. Either way it was rude of L and KW to plan something and excluding everyone else, because this was about k's mental health, and they were cleary trying to make themselves stand out from the rest of our friend group. Which was very typical for them. T was on my side the whole time and we decided we would make a seperate gift basket for k anyways. At school today things were very tense, and i think L might be mad at me, but she has no reason to be. I'm seriously worried about K, and i want to do something so that she knows she has people that love and care about her, but its extremely difficult when L is acting up like this. I dont know if i should confront her or not, because i dont want K to know about what's going on to add more stress into her life. If you read all of this i'm proud of you :)
anonymous School February 27, 2020 at 10:14 pm 0
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Uhh. Kid. That's a lot there, so please understand I'm going on a whim here. But I gather T has your back. And K shouldn't have been pulling everyone's chain that night if he/she didn't plan on responding to anyone. Comes across as looking for attention. Regardless, so far K is your friend and may need friends right now. I would team up with T and be there for this friend in any good way you can. However, don't let an emotional vampire drive you crazy. You can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink. If K ends up being someone either beyond help or just an attention seeker, then I would think the appropriate thing to do would be to politely voice your concern to a close teacher or his/her parents and then back off, as people like that only take you down with them. Good luck!
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