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Sexually frustrated

I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years and we're happy. The thing is he's gotten so comfortable in our relationship that we barely have sex anymore. I'm talking about like once or twice a month at most. Im 28 and he's 35 so it's not like he's too old. When we DO it's because I initiate it. He doesn't touch me or caresses me like our first 2 years dating and I've brought it up before. I get that he's tired from work some days but even on vacations we don't do anything. I thought it was me at first. I would dress up nicely or wear things he liked or cuddle him in bed. But nothing. He expects me to cuddle him every day now and when I don't he gets upset?? I just wish he would acknowledge me more. And I'm tired of telling him how I feel about these things only for him to disregard them and tells me he loves me. I don't want gifts or to be taken out. I just want him to hold me and watch tv with me and not just expect me to do everything. I asked him to make coffee ONCE. And he got upset since I'm the one that makes it.
anonymous Relationships February 23, 2020 at 5:34 pm 0
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k, i was going to say one thing but changed my mind

you're both losers. Never expect happiness you can't even sustain a paler version of fuck. Idk. Your life sounds horrific
anonymou 4 years ago
C'est la vie.
anonymous 4 years ago
Maybe he finds sex almost as unenjoyable as I do. I say "almost" because he at least submits if the female initiates it whereas I would not. On the other hand it could also be possible that he very much enjoys sex and is getting what he wants from another woman. So maybe he's sexually frustrated as well. Only your frustration appears to stem from the frequency of sexual activity and his may very well be with his overall dissatisfaction in having sex with you.

I don't know nor do I particularly care I'm just commenting because you put it out there for responses and I happen to believe that I can respond if I so choose.
anonymous 4 years ago
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