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Scared of my narcissistic ex

I’m scared of my narcissistic ex-boyfriend. He hit me up throughout the week and I ignored him now he saying that I’m selfish for not talking to him. On Wednesday he showed up to my job unannounced mind you and dropped off all the gifts that I ever gave him from T-shirts to a book that he never even read and some clothes for his daughter. The funny thing is he told all of his friends that I have met his daughter and that I was good with her and she liked me, But the truth of the matter is I’ve never even met his daughter. And then today he’s saying oh I have to leave you now but that’s OK you’ll be OK without me but you have to talk to me still. How is it that you’re saying that you’re going to leave and yet you still try to keep me in your life. I’m scared that he’s going to come back and hurt me again, I’m scared that he’s going to make me look like the villain and himself the victim. I’m the victim because I’m the one that’s slowly breaking and it showing and everything that I do yet he’s able to stand strong. I’m scared that I won’t be strong enough to push them away like I need to, I’ve opened up Pandora’s box with him and I’m afraid that I can’t close it back.
anonymous Relationships January 25, 2020 at 12:25 pm 0
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So, I have a dad whose a narcissist. Think about it this way. To a narcissist the entire world is an extension of themselves. Nothing...and I mean NOTHING...they say is a reflection of you. It's a reflection of how their perception of the world is effected by you and because they have a distorted reflection of the world it doesn't even accurately represent that. The reason he would have praised you to his friends (about your dealings with his daughter or anything else, for that matter) is because it makes HIM look good. He can't let people know he chose someone that isn't perfect (and c'mon, none us are perfect...myself included (especially)) but anything he says about you is a reflection of HIMSELF. Not you. Here's the deal...a narcissist is NEVER the strong one. They're broken and hurting inside (all of them to a different degree) and everything they're doing is to cover that up. You need to be the strong one. You sound like you already are and are just afraid of no longer being able to keep it up. Here's the think...if you already are...that's great. Just maintenance the feeling of being strong and go with it. Don't worry about them...they're broken inside and have no way of ever being able to see that. Move on. You deserve it.
me 4 years ago
...oh, and anything negative he says about you or accuses you of...is him reflecting how he feels about himself onto you. Seriously. Google it and read up. I did and it helped me understand my farther. I have a great relationship with him now, but that's unusual with a narcissist.
me 4 years ago
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