OK so, i’m really close with this one girl in my school. Her and I have gotten along for a really long time but recently our conversations have just been about drama. My preference would be to talk about each other’s hobbies and things like that but we’ve just been basically gossiping. She’s recently been talking to more boys and I think it’s affecting her and the way she’s been talking to me or just addressing me as a friend. Her and I would joke around and be mean to each other but it’s kind of escalated, I don’t know how to let her know because she’s really close to me and every time I open up my thoughts about her and how her actions affect me she always somehow puts down my mood by telling me everything I don’t want to hear about myself. For example, one time I was joking around with her telling her my family were trying to find a new house for myself and my family, then I told her it was just a joke, but she said I’m always sarcastic and I never take anything seriously which kind of hurt me because I find humor as a way to cope with things. She’s one of my closest friends in the entire school so I don’t know if I wanna cut her out because she is becoming toxic or if I should let her know what she’s doing and sort it out with her.
anonymousFriends September 15, 2020 at 6:54 am20