I am kind of upset

It's a stupid matter, but I just got to get it off my chest. Cause I was ready to curse this person out the next time I see them, and its not even that serious.

I moved into a new apartment and recently met a group of residents who lived in my new apt building, and I have been hanging out with them recently. I have this thing where I try to read people's personalities, which I assume everyone does and figure out how to approach them . Any who, their was one person in the group who came off to me as kind of stand-off ish, and the type to get quick tempered, or argumentative at anything that doesn't match what she believes, or if the opinion is wrong, and just sets automatic judgement on their character with the blink of an eye. Little did I know I was right. I have heard say she doesn't like so so so, for they said or did this that and the third, seems like she carries grudges!

Any who they had a game night today on the patio, and I decided to join. I was the first one there, then SHE came down later, and it was just her and I at this point waiting for everyone else (they were playing in a different area, and we didn't know). I guess I felt awkward about not talking, so I decided to try and make conversation (big mistake). I could see that she wasn't tryna to engage in having a convo, at first, but at some point I got her talking a lil. Then we went back to what I felt was an awkward silence as we waited. Again, I tried start a new topic... I brung up a recent event in which I gave my opinion on, however, by her response I can tell she def misinterpreted what I said, for she got triggered and literally preceded to go off on me. Now i'm sitting back looking real confused like what just happened (now I'm a lil triggered myself, and I never talked her one on one b4), so I asked her what her opinion on the matter was (cause clearly you didn't understand mine). So she angrily gave her opinion on the event (and it was at this point I realized we had the same opinion just stated differently). So I tried to re-explain myself nicely, by saying "I agree.. but my perspective," and she just rudely cut me off and was like I don't want hear it. Basically, implying that she had already made un-necessary judgment about my character and thought process based on an opinion she didn't even understand. At this point I just wanted to curse her out! Granted it's my fault for even initiating a convo (that will never fucking happen again), but I can see that you clearly can't have a civil conversation, without assuming the worse, and being rude. Even if my point was opposite from your point, who are you to immediately pass judgement on me, and use that lil bit of false/misinterpretation to plague me.

And yes I know this is a stupid situation!. But what truly angered me is the mere fact that she had the AUDACITY to use her mouth to attack my character and assume me to a be a particular type of person (that I am not). And I know she's going to carry this false interpretation of me, and add to the list of people she don't like her or whatever. And her not liking me is not the problem. Its her thinking she can come at me all hostile like that in the future, and I'll be damned if I let her get a second run at me like that, ESPECIALLY if it was off a mis-understood opinion that she was not fucking civilized or calm enough to listen and understand.

Im the type that hates un-necessary disrespect, and I felt highly disrespected, by trying to just fucking have a conversation, but I am realizing that is my fault for one even trying to engage in conversation, after assuming her personality (But my intuition was right), and I guess not stating my opinion well. BUT BOY LET HER DISRESPECT ME AGAIN!

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Amomynous Other August 06, 2020 at 1:25 am 1 0