Originally they were called “involuntary celibates” and they were just really dorky or shy guys that had trouble talking to women. There’s a documentary about the guy that made the original LoveShy**** and he was just really socially awkward. A lot of the you get guys that are getting lumped in with this crowd don’t believe extreme gender things at all and are just lonely, they want a partner and a family. I only found all of this because my friend with autism was shot down by this girl and she started calling him an incel and we didn’t know what that was. It was really hurtful to him and he left the room I’m pretty sure to just cry.

Please just be aware that not every young guy with bad social skills feels this way and it can be very hurtful to say something like that to them. Socially awkward people aren’t always creeps, I have a friend with autism and my brother-in-law has been selectively mute because he suffers from PTSD. He didn’t marry my sister until they were in their 40’s because he lived a life of fear and isolation.

In short, have compassion before passing judgment. Some people are angry or sad because of real, hard trauma, and yelling at them doesn’t solve anything. We can be better by helping EVERYONE and giving ALL PEOPLE a chance!

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Lorena 4 years ago

I hate being called an incel because I'm not an incel. I am celibate, but it is very much VOLUNTARY!

I do not want a relationship with a female... Not for sex or any other purpose.

* I have stated repeatedly that I do not want a girl.
* I am doing absolutely nothing to try to get a girl.
* I am not looking for a girl.
* I am having absolutely no contact with girls.
* I am NOT complaining about being unable to get a girl.

Given the facts that I have outlined above, and they are very much FACTS, what is "INVOLUNTARY" about my CHOICE to be CELIBATE?

I am under unlawful surveillance, there is no question about that, and people are saying that this surveillance is somehow girl related, but where is the issue? Is there some loser taking issue with the fact that I do NOT want his woman? Is there some "entitled" bitch out there who feels that she is being wronged if there are men in the world that do not want her?

I do not want a girl. How or why would that be an issue for anyone? How or why would that be an issue warranting my being placed under unlawful surveillance?

It's a FREE country and NO MAN is required to want a relationship, sexual or otherwise, with a female. That's life, dude! That's REALITY... You should JOIN it sometime.

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anonymous 4 years ago

Incels suck.

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anonymous 4 years ago

Volcel pride, worldwide!

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Master Volcel Harrison 4 years ago

Incels killed people in my hometown. Fuck em

It's just tired old misogyny. Hate its nothing new.

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anonymous 4 years ago

^ Profiling incels for profiling women...

Black people are responsible for almost all homicides. That's why all nazis become hateful bigots. [19% Fuck em all, but 80% fuck you. (1% fuck myself)]

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anonymous 4 years ago

I didn't mean it. Go on scapegoating the incels. Women are not property because obviously they are intelligent to think for themselves and shouldn't be thought of as a commodity.

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anonymous 4 years ago

Oh yeah, I'm the dick cause I remember that some incel piece of shit ran over a dozen people down the street from me. My bad.

Fuck that creepy cult.

Get out of there if you're in it. Join a different group where you can meet new people. Incel is the worst way to go.

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anonymous 4 years ago

im actually surprised at how many people agree with this. not complaining i just thought there were mostly horrible people here.

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anonymous 1 year ago