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A shout for help

A shout for help

ok, shes my wife, i love her and all but I am getting sick of tired of her whinning and complaining. you dont hear that from her when shes talking to her family, friends and colleagues. when were together, boom compalints and whinning. its sickening, you give her advice, she complains that I dont understand. its driving me crazy. Heck, we even dont do sex anymore almost 4yrs now. she would only cook when she feels like it. now dont get me wrong, I talked her about it, i tried to be understanding but sometimes theres a limit of what a person can take. Its like I want to explode. scream, shout... please I want to rest, away from the constant whinnning and complaining.
BigBadWolf Relationships December 06, 2018 at 11:02 am 0
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She doesn't want advice, she just wants someone to listen. So when she starts complaining next time just stop her for a second and say "Do you want advice or do you just need to get it off your chest" It will help a lot and she'll feel like you do understand a little better. And maybe tell her "I like to help you feel better, but I can only listen to 30 minutes before it starts to make me feel bad, can you keep it to 30 minutes?"
As for the sex and food thing. Maybe her feeling like shes unheard has damaged her sex drive, I would see if it gets better after a week of listening. If not I would tell her that it is making you feel unloved that she doesn't seem to want to be intimate with you anymore. And the food. Do positive reinforcement. Tell her how happy it makes you every time she cooks and how you love eating her food.
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