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[59537] Pressure

I'm a 16 year old guy. I started dating this amazing girl 2 months ago, around the same time my friend started dating his girlfriend. While i really do like my girlfriend, she has secrets, she's said she's done things and that she's less innocent then she seems. I don't even know what she means, I've heard about her with mj and alcohol but not much other than a few bits. My friend has been talking all the time about how he wants to have sex with his girlfriend(by the way this his first girlfriend and he didn't kiss her til 2 months in so why he so hurried?) Anyway, he keeps mentioning It to mr and so many other people talk about how they've done things, even my adopted brother. I feel like everybody's just in on something that I don't get, like I'm too young to understand. I feel pressured into sex but I haven't even put thought towards that. Is it just me? Am I missing something?

Posted 4 days ago

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  • Your girlfriend is allowed to have secrets. No one shares everything with another person.

    Just be you and stop comparing yourself to everyone else. You are young, and you don't have to do everything all at once.
    Posted 4 days agoReport

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